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Immanuel
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:smile:
I feel realy good right now - tirred, but good.
Today we had a 6 hours psychology and psychiatry examination. 1½ years of psychology and 1 year of psychiatry.

And it is all over now :grin::D

When I gor back to my apartment this evening, I had a very special feeling. I felt free. For a full month I have had this on my mind - too much reading and too little time = too little joy of the work. But this evening was different. I was not comming home a room loaded with papers and books, that I'd better read. A chapter has been ended. Next semester (tuesday already) we start with new subjects - a bit too early for my taste. I could use a week of rest now.

But comming home tonight was such a free feeling. It was as if the air was different. Also, today I reexperiented the sensation, that feeling good can have a huge effect on my physical perception. I see and hear in a different way - more open.

Comming back to PlanetZ now and seeing the latest/first announcement from Creamware Audio didn't my day any bit worse either :smile:

This has truly been a good day to me. I didn't get the results from the examination yet. But I dont bother too much about it. I feel quite confident, that I made it this time.

I am happy to share this with you nice people :smile:

And now I must go home again and play with my new sts-5000



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Have fun!
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Post by petal »

Yup I know that feeling very well!

Finished my exams monday and all three went very well :smile:

Now only 3 semesters left

ahhhhhh - bliss

Thomas :smile:
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Jamen så også tillykke til dig Thomas :smile:
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:lol:

Yes maybe that hubird - or maybe the opposite?
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congrats Immanuel - may your score be according to your optimism :smile:
I must have anticipated something like this from subconciousness, as just this evening I rewarded myself with an xtra calibre of a spanish cigar - good stuff from the Canary Isles - then the great announcement and now your success message, cool :grin:

cheers, Tom
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I think this feeling comes from the fact that you could control life a bit... this is alwyas great, and it is not always obvious. Congratulations and keep going... :smile:
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Astroman:

We had an A-part (pure theory) and a B-part (a case). A-part is 1/3 and B-part is 2/3. I did however spend 3½/6 hours on the A-part. My notes for the A-part where just too good, and I felt confident, that I would pass anyway. So I could spend the time on writing some things in depth, that I liked.

It is kind of nice. In the "school" I attended for 2 years to qualify for the University, My marks had an average of 8,2 out of 10 - with only to marks below 8 (6s). My Intellectual capacity has always been a part of my self-image. Then in December, I failed an exam here at the University. Ok, I got caught by some very bad circumstances, but still it was kind of hard to me to get a 3 (1-10 scale). But now, it is actually freeing. To take this test 2 days ago and not customize my writing for high marks - but to do with it, what i LIKED the most - that was a good feeling. I expect somewhere around 8 or 9 for the A-part and somewhere around 3-6 for the B-part. I need a weighted average of 4 to pass, so I feel good about it.

And it indeed is a new feeling to think "just passing is ok - I don't need more". Our marks at this point of the education are actually quite unimportant - they do not mean much to our chances for getting a job later on. What is important is, what we have learned.



Nestor (warning psychology lecture comming up):

You are right in the subject of the A-part of my examination. The subject was cognitive/behaviouristic theory and learning. Research on dogs has shown, that if they are put in a situation, where they can not control a randomly ocuring unpleasant stimulus, then they will become withdrawn and depressed. If later on, there is put in a mechanism, that lets the dog controll the unpleasant stimulus (by making a certain behaviour), the dog will be much slower at finding out how this mechanism works.
Another dog, which from the beginnig has the option the controll the unpleasant stimulus by performing a certain behaviour will learn this behaviour much faster (not beeing focused on helplessness) and will not go into the same depressed state as the first dog.

I think this translates very well into human psychology. People, whom from their childhood have learned that they can controll thier life will often have more confidence in themselves and actually learn a lot of things easier. This again is closely related to research in (I think the English word is: ) the attachment theory done by Mary Ainsworth. Children, who are securely attached have more self confidence, than children who are not so - and the type of attachment learned at the age of 1 year is most often keeped for the rest of their life (it doesn't have to be so, but often is).

Secure attachment is primarily caused by the parrents being adecuately responsive. Meaning: they react often enough - and "correctly" (meaning understanding, when crying means hunger, and when it means sleepy etc.) enough on the childs needs and messages for the child to keep faith, that they will be there, when it needs them. Seen from a cognitive perspective, the child learns, that it can somewhat controll unpleasant (and maybe pleasant too) stimuli. Thereby, it doesn't get the helpless and "giving up" characteristic observed on the dog, that couldnt controll unpleasant stimuli in the first place.

Daniel Stern has a theory about lived and remembered moments and scenarios (L-moment, R-moments, L-scenarios and R-scenarios). The important thing is, that humans are subjective, and therefor their memory of a sertain event is subjective (and selective) too. When a sertain moment has been lived a number of times, the child will create a kind of overall picture of this kind of moment (could be feeding). This is the R-moment. A scenario is a sequence of events (could be: I am hungry, (I express my hunger (cry)), mother comes, I get food). Again R-scenarios are generalized subjective pictures of L-scenarios. These R-moments and R-scenarios are form "working models", which are a sort personal characteristics and expectations in given generalized situations. Again, I think this fits nicely together with the research on the dogs, and Mary Ainsworth's research on attachments.

Thats all for now folks - it is already kind of long I suppose :smile:

Immanuel
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Did I go too geeky Image
Well, same shit :razz:
You probably don't know less than before :wink:
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Ha, no, I know what you're talking about, I just took the dog's point of view, given the story...:smile:
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