I agree with the mafia metaphor, and I couldn't agree more with the thought that everything has an underlying intention, even if it sometimes is very far away from the actual object, or piece in question. There's a war going on, remember?
If you make your own music, and if you are capable of delivering a finished, quality product by yourself, then you are a sort of a threat to the establishment, because you just did it without their help, and so, they won't help you at all in distributing, and promoting - sometimes not even selling it, even considering that there's some profit to be made.
There are "lineages" of producers, promoters, label owners, opinion makers, etc. and they all work together. One person cannot publicly support or manifest a positive opinion on something unless he has the OK from the person above him. This I have seen with my own eyes. It's like the news on TV - it doesn't matter what happened, they will tell you only what is in line with their editorial stance, which is most of the time determined by obscure (corporate) political and economical interests.
If you make your own music, and consider only your own experience, sensibility and interests, then you have to find your own audience, and work with them (finding out "who cares"). But if you make music for which there already is an audience, setting aside the obsession with being unique and working only with "your own ideas" (something which is rarely, if ever, true), then it will be a lot easier to start a "career", or at least a dialog with the audience and the industry, and once you get your foot in, you can start doing it your own way.
I make many songs that reflect my feelings and ideas, and my experiments wih sound. But, although I can be happy with them as they are (few sounds, just the basic structures and movements), I know I have to work them in such a way that they can be useful to the listener, something that a group of people (whoever they are) can enjoy and make it their own. Take, for example, a dj, one of those old skool techno djs: when he plays a record, it's his record, and when you dance to it, it's your dance. Nobody wants to look bad by playing a record that doesn't work with the people, even if it's done by some mega-star-ultra-virtuoso producer. What you want is music that works with the people, and since everyone's out to have a good time, there's a narrow band of sounds and tricks one can do - but if it's beyond that limit, it'll take a special occasion or a special crowd to work with it.
I have been making music since I was a pre-teen, and have some experience in this field. I've had good friends, who want to support my music, but can't because it's out of their "territory", while the people who currently run the same territory simply ignore it, because I did it without them. After much bitterness and angry words, I decided to release a cd on my own, and although every single PERSON that has heard it has something good to say about it (even though taste is a personal thing), even though I've had people around the globe, people I don't know and never met, posting about it, and asking for copies, I couldn't get a single record shop to sell ONE copy, I couldn't get a distributor, and I'm still working without a label. BUT I have made a good album, working with very little gear and the smallest monitors imaginable - and that makes me proud. They can ignore it, but when it plays, it still sounds good. And when PEOPLE listen to it, they know what I'm talking about. So it didn't bring me any money, but hopefully there's time for that. I'm only saddened that I wasn't able to distribute it as widely as I wished, as I know there are many people that would appreciate it.
Just one last thought: making records is hard and expensive work, and you will need a marketing / distributing machine in order to get it out to the people. On the other hand, playing live in bars and venues, or even in self-organized friends-only events, even if it doesn't pay much, will allow you to meet an audience and have some immediate feedback on your work - which will then translate into more "audience -friendly" recordings, that will make better-selling records.
To finish up, I'd like to post a link to an interview with Robert Rich, in which he addresses the question "Can a musician make a living with 1000 dedicated fans?". This seemed to me like a very down to earth, lucid point of view. A musician is, in many ways, like a "brand" - you have to develop your product without making your audience run away. But to make a long story short, he claims that if he makes a new album every year that fully sells 1000 copies, and manages to get at least 30 gigs, he can make between 10.000 to 20.000 USD a year, including download fees and copyright fees from films, etc... Not much considering the cost of equipment, and considering this is a relatively well-known composer, that benefited from once having a major label standing behind him and promoting his music.
You can read it here, if you like:
http://robertrich.com/1000-true-fans-an-answer/
Let's keep on making music then, shall we?
Cheers,
T