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A word of warning for women - from us, men

Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 5:58 am
by Nestor
Unfortunately, a close girl friend was detected recently an ovarian tumour, we still hope for a positive diagnosis, I mean, we hope it is not a malignant tumour. We will know about it in the following days. She’s a great person, one of those rare beings working for mankind in humanitarian organizations, for free, and for years and years already.

My friend is quite an apprehensive woman when it comes to check herself in front of a doctor. This is, I think, a serious problem. Women detest to be checked in their intimate body, which is very understandable, but many of these metastatic cancers could be removed efficiently if they were detected in an early stage.

The problem is that many women will say something like “I will let it for tomorrow, I’ll go tomorrow”, and so years and years go by without a check. Tumours in general, in the ovarian area, do not bother the person until they get their advanced stage, when is already big and has involved part of “other organs”.

Despite the fact I understand that woman can feel shy in front of a doctor checking their intimate parts, we men, should encourage and even positively persuade them to do the proper tests every year. If we do so, we will contribute in kipping them save.

To have an unpleasant moment every year compared with the risk of having a cancer tumour, is nothing really, it is worth the effort.

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A source of high quality information here:

http://ovariancancer.jhmi.edu/home.cfm

Cheers

Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 10:03 am
by Lima
Hi Nestor, I wish the best luck to your friend.

Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 12:47 pm
by bassdude
I wish your friend luck as well. And I also agree that us men have a REAL responsibility to urge our partners to get checkups if they are concerned about any abnormalities. I would also like to say to those with a partner and are breastfeeding, if she is still concerned about lumps in her breast after being told about blocked milk ducts, then urge her to get it checked out properly. This is what happened to us. My wife had a breast removed because of a 7.3cm tumour after mistaken diagnoses. She is only 31. Cancer does not discriminate with age.

Our story is here for anyone who is interested:-
http://www.fightformartina.com/

Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 5:16 pm
by Nestor
Thank you guys for your support and words.

I am sorry for what happened to your wife fellow bass-man-player, and I am glad that you are concerned about spreading the word on it. Cheers!