Hi Ken,
The answer is "Yes", lots of things have gone wrong or are going wrong:
As you may know, we nearly moved to the Isle of Lewis in the Outer Hebrides of Scotland last summer, but the logistics were wrong and the weather wasn't right for our life-style.
Anyway, we fell in love again with Aviemore and the Cairngorm mountains area of Scotland and have decided that is where we want to live - definite.
We decided in January/February of this year to spend 6 months there in a rented house while we researched the correct part to live in and looked at some properties. Of course we would have a great 6 month holiday at the same time.
We chose a property and Jan's boss (our vicar) told her she could have 6 months off and if it didn't work out, her job was still there for her. But 3 days before we signed for it the owner (in America) decided he could make much more money by renting it as a holiday cottage, so the deal fell through.
In March we went to look at another property or 2 and were close to clinching the deal.
Jan (my perfect wife) had to go into hospital for a day for a minor operation/procedure. She had this and all was well for a week and then the pains started. To cut a long story short, they did something wrong during the operation and damaged some nerves. Investigations are still going on to determine what the problem is. She had ultrasound scans 3 weeks ago (but they don't show up any nerve damage).
Results are expected in a few weeks time.
The hospital denies that they did anything wrong and say that it is a coincidence that she has this complaint now.
What does it do to Jan?
Well, she is in a lot of constant pain and semi-disabled. She can not bike, do any gardening, can not always sit comfortably, has continual pain and numbness, can not walk for any length of time or distance and much more.
She has some medication and that means no alcohol (I'm drinking her whisky

).
All in all, she is unwell, and by her standards of fitness, effectively disabled. Nerve damage can take years to mend, if at all and things look bleak.
Of course, it is impossible to have a holiday, whether it is for a week or 6 months because of the treatment and appointments with the hospital and doctors.
On top of that, it is no use having a holiday if Jan can't enjoy it. And fulfilling our life ambition of moving to the mountains of Scotland is useless if you can only sit at the bottom of the mountain looking at them, instead of charging up and down them on mountain bikes.
On top of that, her mother, who really is a lovely woman, has turned on the emotional blackmail and effectively told Jan that it is her duty to forfeit her life until her mother dies, and to live always within 5 Km of her. Based on the fact that her mum will probably live another 15 years, that would put me & Jan in our mid - 60's and I don't fancy doing 4000 ft of vertical mountain biking at that age. Of course, I totally disagree with her mother and it won't stop us, but we're getting a lot of poison from her about anything.
It is extremely hard to maintain a compassionate Christian attitude when someone is pulling your doll out of the cupboard and sticking pins in it
So, yes, things are a mess.
Not really a good climate for writing music eh?
But, with the plans to move scuppered, I haven't got as many commitments as other years because we had planned not to be here - so I can spend some quality time studying music production and mixing - small comfort really but I may as well get on with it.
And then we come to the bad bits ............
(just kidding)